Edging can add a new erotic thrill to your sex life. What is edging? It is a technique used to stimulate your sexual arousal over extended periods of time by stopping and starting stimulation at different intervals Your frequent periods of denial to orgasm build up to having very powerful orgasms when you finally release yourself. You become very in tune with your own body, and you can easily read all your body signals telling you that you are close to exploding with an orgasm. This gives you more stamina, and you learn to ride the edge. You can do this by yourself, or with a partner.
What are the benefits of Edging?
There are many benefits to edging. Edging it the ultimate tease giving you more stamina, and giving you amazing strong orgasms. There is such a strong increase in intensity when you do finally orgasm. You are in control, so you decide how long you want to edge yourself, and that can last from minutes, to hours, to days.
When you edge with a partner it creates a deeper intimacy in your relationship. You become better at communicating your needs to each other. You will have many erotic adventures together, and that will have you anticipating many thrilling sexual encounters. Sex will last longer, and you will want to get creative to try new things together to spice up your sex life.
There is a strong power dynamic that will come into play with your partner. You will take turns of who is dominate vs submissive in your sessions. Feel the erotic thrill of domination giving you the power to control your partner’s orgasms. Then take your turn feeling the complete surrender of submission.
How to start Edging Play.
Get yourself set up in a comfortable stimulating environment. Use whatever turns you on whether it is candles, music , scents and oils, etc…You can start this alone or with a partner. Start to stimulate yourself sexually using what makes you feel good. You can just use your hands, toys of all kinds, lingerie, fabrics or clothes of all types, and try different lubricants, etc… Do what makes you feel good, and this is different for everyone.
Now listen to the things your body is telling you as you get excited. The more you practice, the better in tune with your body you will be. As your arousal gets stronger and you feel you are close to having an orgasm, then stop stimulating yourself altogether for several minutes. Stop stroking yourself, then restart the stimulation shortly. You will continue to do this over and over again for as long as you like. Keep bringing yourself close to the edge, but don’t go over. This denial in incredibly powerful. Then when you do finally decide to orgasm it will be an amazing powerful orgasm. As time go on with lots of practice this keeps getting better.
Keep changing things up for variety and better sensation. Try different position changes, or something new like anal stimulation. New toys and different lubricants are good to experience. You can use different condoms to decrease sensation.
Remember when playing with a partner all things need to be consensual, so discuss your rules and boundaries before you begin.
Add some fun variety to your Edging Play.
Don’t keep doing the same old thing in your sexual routine, or things will get boring. When you play with a partner you can add some role play fun for variety. Think of all the variations of play this can add. You can have a naughty housewife teasing and edging the pool boy denying him that hot body he wants. A naughty secretary could be edging her alpha boss all day making him crazy for her until he explodes with the strongest orgasm he ever had. The king of the castle could be edged all night by the sexy peasant woman who wants to drive him crazy with lust for her. There are many variations to choose from, and you are only limited by your imagination.
Make your fantasies come true.
It is always fun to try something new especially when it comes to spicing up your sex life. Try edging to see just how powerful your orgasms can get. You can start by just edging yourself, or you can play with a partner. You are in control, and you choose for how long you want to edge. If you would like to play out some of your edging fantasies , or even add some role play I would love to help you with that. Just call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for me Mistress Lynne. I would love to share all your fantasies with you. My voice will guide you into having strong orgasms, and we can go on erotic adventures together. I look forward to hearing from you.
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Mistress Lynne
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