A smoking fetish is also known as Capnolagnia. It means people get sexually aroused from watching or imagining a person smoking, themselves included. It can include smoke from different items like pipes, cigarettes, cigars, hookahs, etc…A smoking fetish is still popular among a variety of people who crave it when it comes to sex. Even though smoking has become unpopular nowadays due to health reasons, it still plays a part in sexual rituals for many.
Smoking has been romanticized over the years going way back to the early days of movies and commercials. They presented a strong confident sexy image smoking cigarettes. It was an erotic sexy image when you saw a beautiful woman putting that cigarette to her mouth , and you watch as she wraps her lips around it, and then she blows that smoke out of those luscious lips. Don’t forget the Marlboro man. He was strong, confidant, and masculine as he smoked his cigarettes. Women could imagine him in their bed taking control of their bodies with that same sexy confidence he portrayed in those ads.
Why people are hooked on a smoking fetish
There are many reasons a person can be obsessed with a smoking fetish when it comes to their sex life. They might love the sexy body image of the smoker, and they are mesmerized watching the person move and blow smoke out of their mouth. Also many people tell me they love the smell of the cigarettes or cigars. As soon as they smell it they get aroused.
There is a taboo factor connected with a smoking fetish. People like to be naughty, and this fetish makes them feel naughty. They are also attracted by the wealth factor connected to a smoker. It is an expensive habit to have, and seen among many wealthy people who indulge in this.
The visual aspect keeps people hooked on a smoking fetish. It is the oral factor that attracts people. Many love to watch the person’s mouth when they take in that smoke, and then watch them blow it out. It makes men think of their cock going in that mouth instead, and what that will feel like.
BDSM has been connected to a smoking fetish
Smoking has long been linked to a dominatrix role in BDSM. The dominatrix many want to punish their submissive by blowing smoke in their face and force them to breathe it in. A dominatrix portrays a strong , confident sexy figure that is in complete control, and having a cigarette dangling from her fingers only adds to this sexual erotic image. She could use the person as her ashtray as she taps ashes in his open mouth, or she could put the cigarette out on the submissive to give more pain. She could also force the person to smoke the cigarette themselves. There are many ways smoking can be used to degrade or humiliate the submissive. Smokers are romanticized as risk takers, wild and free, bold , strong , confident and exciting people that can easily seduce you.
Triggers for a smoking fetish
I have talked with many people over the years about their smoking fetish. When people tell me about their past history I found some very common triggers that started their fetish. People tell me it goes way back to their younger years when they were around friends or family that smoked. They learned to love the smell of it, they admired the person smoking , and they were attracted to them sexually. So this imprinted on their brain forever linking the smoking to sexual arousal.
There are sexual experiences that people have in their past that links smoking to a highly aroused state for many. They had a lover that smoked in the bedroom, and they loved watching the person blow smoke on their body. The smell of smoke instantly reminds them of the sex connected to it before. Many people can’t orgasm without someone smoking next to them.
What drives a person to cigarette addiction
Addiction to cigarettes is driven by nicotine which is a highly addictive substance. Nicotine enters your brain in 10 seconds, and it goes to the brain’s reward center which releases dopamine give temporary pleasure. It produces a buzz of electrifying energy giving your body that high of energy and pleasure. You keep coming back for that feeling because nicotine makes you crave it more and more.
Some people have certain routines and rituals they follow daily, and smoking is on their list. It might be having a smoke after a meal, or first thing in the morning when you wake up. You might want to light up a cigarette after sex, or during sex. Everyone has certain patterns in their life, and smoking fits right in their specific routine.
Downside of smoking
There are many downsides to having a smoking fetish. It is very bad for your health ruining your lungs and heart. Smoking ages you and gives you that older wrinkled appearance. It affects your circulation by decreasing blood flow in your body, so it can cause a 50 percent chance of erection problems for men. Smoking leads to reduced semen quality, sperm volume, motility and viability. Those are just a few of the bad things smoking does to your body.
Understanding fetishes
In my blog I try to include articles about all different types of fetishes. I think it is good to learn about all types of fetishes, and maybe it will help a person understand why they have a certain fetish, or if someone else they know has that fetish. Since I am a nurse, I tend to look at the psychological and medical parts in why people have certain fetishes. So I try to bring that educational information to my readers. There are so many different types of fetishes, and people will all like something different.
If you learn about other fetishes you might find something new you wish to try in your sex life. Keep open minded, and it will help you to understand other people also. So if you are interested in learning about a certain fetish , you can email me at Lynne@enchantrixempire.com with your questions, and I might even write a full blog about it. If you want you can also book a session with me by calling 1-800-601-6975, and we can share your fantasies together. Spice up your sex life, and I look forward to hearing from you.
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