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Erotic spanking is the act of spanking another person for sexual  arousal, and it is a very popular kink to have fun with.  Most people think spanking adds more excitement to their sex lives.  It is a fun form of impact play that involves a power exchange, humiliation,  dominance and submission, and is associated with BDSM, but not exclusive to it.  Spanking  is a discipline that has been eroticized to give mutual pleasure to those involved.  You will get a natural high from the thrill of submission verses the power of domination.

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Why do people like spanking?

There is a fine line between pleasure and pain.  Spanking feels naughty, sexy, and is  a taboo behavior.  People like the thrill of being startled by the sound of spanking.  They like being taken by surprise when that hand first cracks down upon their ass. It is fun to explore the thrill of  domination and submission.  It can intensify your feelings of pleasure, and make you more responsive to stimulation and, it can release endorphins and give you a natural sexual high.

Men like to spank to assert their dominance over a woman, and a dominant woman uses spanking to put her submissive partner in his place.  With  some people spanking adds a deeper connection to their relationship, and it grounds them.  It tests a person’s boundaries, and the sound of it is surprisingly powerful.

It must be consensual for both parties involved.  The submissive person loves that delicious feeling of being powerless. It is such a strong emotional turn on, and they like feeling naughty and all the sensations that go with it. People enjoy role play, and spanking can be a fun part of that.

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Different ways to spank someone.

There are so many different ways to spank someone. A person  can be clothed or unclothed. They can be in so many different positions, like standing, bent over, pressed up against something, laying down, strapped to a bench or other equipment, over the knee, etc…The choices are up to you and your partner to what you agree on from the start.

There are many tools you can use also. You don’t have to use any equipment if you don’t want to. Some people just want to spank someone using only their hands, while other people will use things like, paddles, hairbrushes, a crop, a belt, etc… No matter what you agree to use , you must be careful not to hurt someone. Safety is important.

It is fun to involve role play.  You can pick from  many different scenarios to choose from, and you  can even have fun dressing up in costumes to play your parts.  Spanking is also used as exciting foreplay leading to other sexual activities.

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How to spank someone.

Start out slow and easy to get into spanking so you don’t traumatize your partner.  The tease of it is more fun and exciting.  You can vary the patterns of spanking, the speed and intensity.  Massage the area you are spanking first.  Let your partner feel the caress of your hands there first.  Start with slow controlled light slaps to see how the person reacts. Slap in an upward motion with fingers together.  Then you can gauge when you can apply more pressure.  Take breaks between hits and go to massage the skin there.  The skin will be more highly sensitized to your touch after spanking slaps.

After you play with just your hands, then you can  move on to trying other tools like belts, brushes, crops, paddles, etc…Vary your positions the person being spanked is in. It feels different being over someone’s lap verses standing , or bent over.  Some people get into more elaborate play and use spanking benches or other creative BDSM toys.  You can also spank yourself when you are masturbating to take you to a new level of arousal.

From the beginning it must be consensual between both people involved.  Have rules and boundaries set you both agree on. Have safe words in place so you know when to stop so you don’t hurt someone.

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Try spanking to spice up your sex life.

It is always fun to try new things to make your sex life more exciting. Spanking might be just what  you need.  Have an open  mind because it is fun to experiment. Talk to your partner about trying spanking, and maybe some new fun role plays to go with it.   If you had any questions about spanking, or wanted to try out a spanking role play fantasy you can call me at 800-601-6975.  I would love to share your fantasies with you.  I can take you on  many erotic fun adventures. I look forward to hearing from you.

Hugs and Kisses

Mistress Lynne