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SPH( small penis humiliation) is verbal humiliation meant to degrade a man’s cock for it’s appearance, size, shape, and ability to please a woman.  The size of a man’s penis has always related to his masculinity, self worth, and sexual ability to please a woman.  This humiliation can be done in public or privately.  This is a sexual game people can play that involves trust, vulnerability, dominance, and submission.   It lets people play with shame in a safe environment.  A  man with this fetish enjoys the humiliation, shame and judgement. It arouses him  sexually.

 

Why would a man crave SPH?

Men with a small penis usually have low confidence, and poor body image.  This of course affects their sexual performance, and takes a toll on their mental health.  We live in a culture of body shaming, and penis shaming is very common. So you must ask yourself why a man would want someone to humiliate him over his small penis.  The turn on comes from the shame being eroticized.

The shame and humiliation is physically arousing.  You get an adrenaline rush when you are humiliated.  It produces an erotic electrifying feeling that shoots through your body. You come to crave it.

Men get satisfaction from the emotions related to the act of humiliation involved.  They give the control over to the woman that is humiliating them, then they take control of this insecurity.  It is erotic to give up control. Letting themselves be vulnerable arouses them.  The person being humiliated has control of how far it will go. This is a playful fetish people can enjoy, and it involves mind games.

Some men turn to SPH as a coping mechanism.  They learn to embrace the issue of having a small penis instead of having pain from it. This allows men to process the shame of a tiny penis in  a safe consensual environment. This can be very liberating for some men.

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What type of humiliation is involved?

There is different degrees of humiliation.  It can be physical, verbal, or emotional humiliation.   You and your partner must discuss exactly what you want and need.  Set the rules, and then follow them.  You can do too much, and the whole situation can backfire, and you can wind up traumatizing someone.  It usually involves verbal humiliation of all kinds.  You can compare the penis to small objects, or measure the penis with a ruler.

Some people take photos of the penis next to small items like baby carrots or batteries.  It can involve comparing his penis to a huge cock.  Many verbal jabs can be made on performance, and the thought the guy can never satisfy a woman with that little dick. This fetish can connect with cuckolding.  Some people might prefer just light joking around, and nothing too severe.  It is up to you how far it goes.

Many men seek public humiliation in front of other people.  A woman might dress him in panties or other feminine items.  He may like to have his dick talked about in front of your other friends to embarrass him even more.  A woman can also deny him sex, or lock his little dick in a chastity cage since it is so worthless.  A dominant woman can control his cock this way.  Women usually enjoy SPH, and they get a kick out of doing it.

 

How does this affect your sexual relationships?

SPH is a fun erotic sexual game people play to enjoy each other. It is meant to bring satisfaction , and not to use as a punishment.  It can increase your closeness in your relationship with your partner. Communication is the key.  Couples can have fun with SPH in role play.  You are only limited by your imagination.  Men can get satisfaction from SPH whether or not they really have a small penis.  They just like to play the game , and all the humiliation is very arousing to them.

Experience the thrill of surrendering to a dominant woman.  You will come to crave the humiliation and being vulnerable.

 

Communication is very important.

Talk to your partner about your sexual needs and desires. Set the ground rules, and let your partner know how severe you want the humiliation to go.  Have safe words in place so you both know when it needs to stop.  Aftercare is important. Talk to your partner to see how they feel after you play. Did they like it or not? Do they wish to continue it? Maybe you can think of new role plays to enjoy.  Enjoy being naughty together.

 

Experiment with new things.

It is always fun to try new things to spice up your sex life.  SPH might become a naughty game you and your partner might really enjoy.  If you want to see what it is like you can always call me, and I can give you all the SPH you are looking for.  When you are ready to play call me at 800-601-6975.  I look forward to sharing your fantasies with you.

Hugs and Kisses

Mistress Lynne