Sexual fantasies are any thoughts, visions, or daydreams that give you sexual pleasure. They are a way to get pleasure from an alternate reality. Your brain is your largest sex organ, and you are only limited by your imagination. Fantasies are healthy aspects of sexual pleasure that can enhance your orgasms. It is your brain’s way of projecting a future scenario, or giving you a safe space to try out new ideas you might want to do in the future.
Why do people have sexual fantasies?
There are so many reasons people have sexual fantasies, and I will touch on some of the reasons that are most common. Fantasies can be very therapeutic, and they can help people cope with current problems they have. They can be a great escape, or a stress release, and they can compensate for having a undesirable partner in real life. People can be bored with their real sex life, and they want to be adventurous and try new things, or experience the thrill of doing something taboo.
Many people enjoy reliving a past event that is seared in their memory. Other people crave love, intimacy, and want a deep emotional connection they never had in real life. Their desire to be loved creates a fantasy to fulfill that need.
The sky is the limit, and your imagination is in the driver’s seat taking you any place you wish to go. You can be anything you want in your fantasy by making changes to your age, body, personality, gender, your job, your looks, or your current status in life, etc…
Some people have deep psychological needs that need to be met, or they want sexual satisfaction they don’t have in real life. Others might have a need to heal from past abuse, and they want to take their power back. Many people want to feel sexy, desired, sexually competent, or to validate their virility. Men may want an ego boost to make them feel like they still got it as they get older.
Having a vanilla sex life will cause some people to fantasize what it is like to take a walk on the wild side. They might want BDSM scenarios, and seek that thrill of being submissive, or dominant. The thought of rough sex turns them on. They might desire to feel what it is like to mix pain with pleasure.
What are some popular common fantasies?
There are so many types of sexual fantasies and I will only mention some of the most popular ones that seem to be so common. One of the most popular among women are some type of ravishment scenarios. They make women feel so sexy and desired as their bodies are worshipped and devoured by hot sexy men that want them in a heated passion.
Very common fantasies are sex with strangers, sex with your boss, sex with someone you know that is not your partner, and sex in public places. Others are sex with multiple partners, cuckolding, gang bangs, cheating on your partner, or having an open marriage. People have fun fantasies about going to swinger’s clubs or wild sex parties. Body worship fantasies are extremely common, and people might be obsessed with certain body parts like feet, legs, or breasts for instance.
Oral sex, anal sex, sex with aliens, getting a massage with a happy ending, age gap sex, sex with someone of a different sexual orientation (gay, trans, etc..), rough sex, humiliation scenarios, getting paid for sex and wanting to be used, and losing your virginity, or having sex with a virgin is also very common.
BDSM scenarios, being a submissive or a dominant person, the thrill of bondage and being tied up and helpless, Impact play and being spanked, rough hot passionate sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, playing with all kinds of toys, being punished are all popular sexual fantasies.
It is very common for people to fantasize about medical scenarios, sex with their doctor, sex with a famous person, or trying out new sexual positions they never did before. On top of the list is also fantasies of sex with people you know like the lawn boy, maintenance man, plumber, neighbors, people from your job, friends, and the list goes on.
Sissy boys might dream of what it is like to be a woman, being totally feminized, being in chastity, or wanting to attract men or have sex with men. Other men might crave a cock, and they want to experience sucking cocks or being fucked by them. This is more common than you think.
What fantasies are considered normal?
Each person is different, and we all have different needs and desires. What is considered normal for one person is not considered normal for another. It is very common for people to feel guilt or shame over their sexual fantasies. People worry that something is wrong with them when something turns them on that other people find unacceptable.
Sexual fantasies can have deep roots in our subconscious minds that go back to certain events that happened in our past that changed our lives forever.
Sexual fantasies can become a problem if they cause great distress for you, or become intrusive in your life. Then you might want to seek a mental health expert to deal with that particular problem. The fantasies can also be dangerous if they involve illegal or harmful activities, then you need to seek help.
Having a great sexual imagination is normal and healthy. It can greatly enhance your sex life, and give you great comfort and sexual satisfaction.
It is fun to share your sexual fantasies with others
My name is Mistress Lynne, and I love to share sexual fantasies with people. I enjoy making their dreams come true. When you are ready to play out your sexual fantasies you can call me to have a session together at 800-601-6975. I am very naughty, and I love to play. Tell me all your naughty secrets, and I will give you a safe place to play. I look forward to hearing from you.
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Mistress Lynne
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