Bondage can take your sex life to a new level of excitement.  It involves a delicious power play where one person is dominant , and the other is submissive giving complete control to their partner.  This power play is very sexually arousing.  There are all types of bondage tools you can use, and there are different levels of bondage.  Bondage play involves trust,  discipline, dominance, and surrender.

Benefits of bondage play.

There are many aspects involved with bondage.  It involves trust and security.  Bondage improves communications skills, negotiation , and assertiveness between partners.  People can develop a close relationship when they use this in their sex lives.  It can help heal relationships also.

When using restrains on someone may produce a feeling of sensory deprivation. This increases the person’s sexual excitement.  This also enhances the other senses which increases sexual pleasure.

The power play involved in bondage is a sensual erotic pleasure.  That exchange of power and giving complete surrender to your partner is highly arousing. You can take turns who will be the dominant one, and who will play the submissive so you can feel what it is like to play both roles.  You can have fun tying your partner in certain positions so you can give or receive sexual pleasure.

Safety is key.

Consent is critical when you play with bondage.  You need to establish ground rules and boundaries from the start.  When you play with tying up your partner you must be careful not to tie things too tightly.  You have to be careful not to injure the other person.  The key is to start slowly and do not overwhelm your partner.  Have a safe word to use so you know when your partner is uncomfortable and wants to stop playing.

Types of bondage and restraints to use.

There are many different types of bondage and tools to use in restraining your partner.  it all depends on what you and  your partner are comfortable with, and what level you want to take it to.  It can be as simple as just using your hands and body weight to pin someone down so they can’t move.  You might just be someone that loves to play with handcuffs.   It can be more elaborate involving ropes, certain toys, and other items.

Chastity cages are another form of bondage.  You might want your partner to lock up your cock in a cage so she takes total control of your cock and when  you are allowed to use it.  Then when she lets that cock out of the cage you can have some of the hottest sex you ever had.

Being tied up and helpless is an erotic thrill that many people crave.  You can tie your partner up with  simple things such as ropes, sheets, scarves, or ties. People go further using hoses, cables, chains, duct tape, belts,  hand cuffs, suspension set ups, latex suits,  and other BDSM items.  Some people enjoy going to play at sex dungeons where they have  more elaborate items to use to restrain people.

Have fun with bondage.

The whole idea is to take you on a new sexual adventure to spice up your sex life.  Add role play to your bondage fun.  One person might play the dungeon master punishing his slave. One of my favorites is the dominant woman teaching a man a lesson and bringing him to his knees.  Let your imagination run wild because there are too  many different roles you can play.  Wearing costumes makes it much more fun and enjoyable.  You get to live out a fantasy you have with the thrill of doing something taboo.  Being naughty can be so much fun.

Aftercare if important.

When you are done playing  then aftercare is an important part.  Bondage can be physically and psychologically draining.  You must take the time to communicate with your partner.  Check your partner’s emotions and physical needs.  Find out what they liked or did not like so you can improve your playtime together.  Communication is the key.

Ready to play?

I enjoy granting people’s fantasies.  I would love to know all about your bondage fantasies.  You can call for a session with me at 800-601-6975.  You can also email me at Lynne@enchantrixempire.com.  Let me know what details you want in your fantasy and we can go on erotic adventures together.  I look forward to playing with you.

Hugs and Kisses

Mistress Lynne